When my daughter was born I resisted giving her bottles of my pumped milk. Everything I read told me that she could get nipple confusion and refuse my breasts. I didn't give her a pacifier either.
At four weeks I started pumping one bottle of milk for her daddy to give her early in the morning. It was really nice as I was able to sleep through that early a.m. feeding. I felt almost human again. We also started giving her a pacifier before her afternoon nap. She would lay down awake, suck on her paci for a few minutes, and go to sleep.
Fast forward to eight weeks old. My daughter refuses to drink out of a bottle. She won't let daddy feed her. She won't let brother feed her. She won't let grandma feed her. Oh I know what you're going to tell me. You are going to tell me that I need to leave the room, maybe even leave the house while they give her the bottle. Um no. The only thing I haven't tried is leaving the State!
I started thinking that they need to make a bottle that has a "realistic type" nipple on it.
Someone else already thought of it, but it's not in production yet. I'm hoping that she will again take a bottle one day or even running to the store without her will be a challenge.
By the way, she refuses the pacifier as well.
UPDATE:
My daughter is three months old now and still nursing like a champ. I have been getting a lot more sleep and am not suffering from exhaustion anymore. I haven't tried to give her a bottle in a few weeks. I'm not even pumping milk anymore. I figure she is nursing well, we are both doing great, why mess with what works. If for some reason I have to be away from her for an extended period of time, I will try some of these excellent suggestions you left for me on this post.
Dree